I’ve often heard one version or another of the following line from spiritual seekers…
If only I could get to [enter name of any exotic, far away land here], I’d be able to have a true awakening.
I’ve heard the same kind of thing from seculars in the creative world.
If only I could get those dream clients, I could start putting myself out there in a way that expresses the ‘real me’.
I’ll just come out and say it…
Your most profound spiritual awakening/creative expression can only be realized right here in this very mundane moment just as you are rather than in some idealized situation away from it.
Removal from life is simply not possible.
Wherever you go, there you are.
As within, so without.
Humans have been writing this stuff in ancient texts for thousands of years — it’s nothing new.
Escapism is a great relief, temporarily. But eventually, we come home to ourselves.
I don’t want to be taken somewhere else. I want to wake up to my life, my love, my work, my health, my creativity, my abundance — in this moment, right here in this messy apartment living room with kid toys strewn about the floor.
Since we can’t remove ourselves from life, our only option is to join with it. To love it. To love and accept ourselves in it.
Love will transform normal, ordinary, life into extraordinary life. It will end our desire to remove ourselves from life.
— A Course of Love
This isn’t about accepting what we don’t like. It’s not about spiritually bypassing our dislikes. I’m not suggesting ‘making due’ with the outer conditions of life (the job, the non-job, Janet from accounting, those unpaid bills, the sickness, etc.).
It’s not about accepting externals. It’s about accepting internals and freeing yourself up for... More.
It’s about accepting that you don’t like whatever it is you don’t like. Then, and only then — when you’ve accepted how you feel — can you respond to your life truly. Only when you’ve accepted how you feel do you quit placing the permanent labels on the externals of your life ‘good’ or ‘bad’. Only then can you deal with anything from a place of peace and relaxed movement.
We’re talking about radical acceptance of Self in relationship to your life.
There’s nothing inherently wrong with the stuff/places we think will take us where we want to go — IF they show up in their proper place as effects of inner-change, not attempted causes of it.
It’s just a matter of getting the equation right.
I swear, if I trip over that toy unicorn again, I’m gonna freak…